each day millions of individuals are searching for a partner to experience that special loving feeling. very few people, indeed, are able to grow in love. yes, it does happen. when men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom.

through understanding the hidden differences of the opposite sex we can more successfully give and receive the love that is in our hearts. by validating and accepting our differences, creative solutions can be discovered whereby we can succeed in getting what we want. and more important, we can learn how to best love and support the people we care about.

love is magical and it can last, if we remember our differences.

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awk syg dia kan? awk cintakan dia kan? jom sama2 kita mulakan langkah ini.

good intention are not enough

falling in love is always magical. it feels eternal, as if love will last forever. we naively believe that somehow we are exempt from the problems our parents had, free from the odds that love will die, assured that it is meant to be and that we are destined to live happily ever after.

but as a magic recedes and daily life taken over, it emerges that men continues to expect women to think and react like man, and women expect men to feel and behave like women. without a clear awareness of our differences, we do not take time to understand and respect each other. we become demanding, resentful, judgement and intolerant.

with the best and most loving intentions love continues to die. somehow the problems creep in. the resentments build. communication breaks down. mistrust increases. rejection and repression result. the magic of love is lost.

but! ask ourselves;

- how does it happen?

- why does it happen?

- why does it happen to us?

p/s: jom tido dl. kita smbg lg esok yer :)