remembering our differences

without the awareness that we are supposed to be different, men and women are at odds with each other. we usually become angry or frustrated with the opposite sex because we have forgotten this important truth. we expect the opposite sex to be more like ourselves. we desire them to 'want what we want' and 'feel the way we feel'.

we mistakenly assume that if our parents love us they will react and behave in certain ways-the ways we react and behave when we love someone. this attitude sets up to be dissappointed again and again and prevents us from taking the necessary time to communicate lovingly about our differences.

men mistakenly expect women to think, communicate and react the way men do; women mistakenly expect men to feel, communicate and respond the way women do. we have forgotten that men and women are supposed to be a different.

so, when you remember that men are from mars, and women are from venus, everything can be explained.

you cannot, nor should you ever try to, change your partner. that is his or her job. your job is to change the ways you communicate, react and respond to your partner. with new insight, you have added wisdom and power to adjust your approach. with better communication you can more effectively give the support you seek, and in return, you will be more successful in getting the support you want as well.

'with new insight you have the added wisdom and power to change your approach rather than seeking to change your partner'

gender differences show up the most after getting involved in an intimate relationship, having children together, or when we are under a lot of stress.

introduction..

hai hai hai. dah lama jugak tak update blog nie. malas pulak rasa hati nie. balik aje dr keje,terus rasa penat. nak je cepat2 tido. nak fikir esok kena bangun awl. nak kena masak lg. tp ada jugak terdetik hati nie nak baca buku. dan sy dah habiskan baucer buku sy dgn buku2 yg blh dikatakn berfaedah lah jugak. tp jgn risau,nnt sy akan share2 kat sini yer.

haaaaa,sebelum tue. tajuk nya 'Men are From MARS, Women are From Venus'. haaaa,menarik bukan? tertarik lah tue. hehehe, nak cuba masuk intro dia?

"Gender insight helps us to be more tolerant and forgiving when someone doesn't respond the way we think he or she should"

buku nie berkisahkan tentang mcm mana kita nak jaga hubungan kita dgn someone special. ada ajar byk2 cara lah. nnt blh lah blaja slow2. blh lebih kenal teman2 kita. tmbh2 kalau yg buka sejenis dgn kita.