falling in love is always magical. it feels eternal, as if love will last forever. we naively believe that somehow we are exempt from the problems our parents had, free from the odds that love will die, assured that it is meant to be and that we are destined to live happily ever after.
but as a magic recedes and daily life taken over, it emerges that men continues to expect women to think and react like man, and women expect men to feel and behave like women. without a clear awareness of our differences, we do not take time to understand and respect each other. we become demanding, resentful, judgement and intolerant.
with the best and most loving intentions love continues to die. somehow the problems creep in. the resentments build. communication breaks down. mistrust increases. rejection and repression result. the magic of love is lost.
but! ask ourselves;
- how does it happen?
- why does it happen?
- why does it happen to us?
p/s: jom tido dl. kita smbg lg esok yer :)
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