mencarisekepinghati

you cannot, nor should you ever try to, change your partner. that is his or her job. your job is to change the ways you communicate, react and respond to your partner. with new insight, you have added wisdom and power to adjust your approach. with better communication you can more effectively give the support you seek, and in return, you will be more successful in getting the support you want as well.

'with new insight you have the added wisdom and power to change your approach rather than seeking to change your partner'

gender differences show up the most after getting involved in an intimate relationship, having children together, or when we are under a lot of stress.